Wow! I've been back in North Carolina almost two weeks, and let me tell you, it has been CRAZY! This has been an adventure (as life always is), and I'll try to share a few highlights with you. :)
The drive up here was great! My brother drove up with me (yes, it's like a 14 hour drive), and we got to hang out, chat, and the best part - listen to sermons! We listened to some GREAT sermons, and I learned a TON on the drive! I think the highlight sermons that we listened to were from a few years back at Summit from JD's Song of Solomon series. I learned a TON about relationships and really how God created love and romance to work. I also read a book earlier this summer called
When God Writes Your Love Story.

One concept that I just thought was so cool is that God is the creator of love and romance. Yes, I know that. I mean, God created everything. He, himself, IS love. And yet, I always want to take my love life under my own control. I tell God, "No, your way isn't good enough. I want to be in control," and I take my heart out of His hands and into my own. But what this book talked about (and maybe JD's sermons, I don't remember) was that if I want a fulfilling love life, I have to submit it under God's control. I have to let the author of romance write my love story...and He'll write me one more beautiful than I could ever imagine. This is just so beautiful to me that God even cares about my love life - my singleness, my relationships, my marriage - and wants to be extremely involved in the process.
And then I'm living with an amazing family this summer with three beautiful children. I cannot even begin to say how much I'm learning living with them. I'm learning so much about parenting from Michal and Chris. I'm learning so much about being patient with kids and loving them in spite of how much you want to punch them sometimes. And I'm really genuinely learning how to love. The love that can't be faked. The love that goes past a smile and a pat on the shoulder. I'm learning how to love even when it's hard and I'm tired and all I want to do is kick my feet up and sleep. I'm learning how much love really is a decision. And it is so rewarding, so wonderful, and just a blessing! I am so incredibly blessed to be living with this family. They are so generous and care so much about the gospel.
I feel like I've spent the past two weeks at Summit. In fact, I've been at Summit for seven days straight. Crazy, right? We just finished Kids Week (formerly known as VBS). This really was one of the best weeks of my life! I was challenged, energized, picked on, and loved on...but most of all, I was able to be a part of sharing the gospel with kids and their families. This week, God reminded me of the importance of teaching
kids about Him. Really, when we love on kids and teach them the gospel, it will filter through to their families. It just dawned on me this week. And I realized how large of a task God has given us in kids ministry. But God hasn't left us to do it alone. It was really cool praying with Brad Beamon last night as we said goodbye and thank you as he leaves Summit Kids and moves back to ECU to pursue the career God has laid out before him. He said that God has showed him so many cool things in his quiet time and has just spoken through him to these kids. That is my prayer as I begin teaching these kids - that God will show me more of Himself and that He will speak through me to these preschoolers on Saturday nights. I am amazed at how much God has done in Summit Kids just in the Saturday night preschoolers that I work with, and I'm so excited to see what he's going to do in the future. I'm so excited and honored that He has chosen to use me in kids ministry. Kids are really what my heart is for. I love them so much. They never fail to bring a smile to my face and to re-energize me, even after a long crazy week!
BUT back to Kids Week...I got to be crazy, silly, and goofy all week for the kids. I got to work with Matt Allison, one of the Summit Kids staff, in leading the boys vs. girls Penny Wars. Here's a recap:
- Day 1: Boys won. I had to eat baby food. The idea was gross, but it actually tasted like ground up, watered down tuna, and I like tuna, so it was ok.
- Day 2: Boys won (again). Matt put a pantyhose over my head containing four or five eggs and cracked them all, so they ran down my face. THEN, in an effort to be "nice", he told me to sit down in a chair, on which the rest of the eggs sat. It was quite a sticky adventure. And I had to wear a bunny suit (and got to eat Trix) all the next day.

- Day 3: Girls FINALLY won. I decided that the worst possible thing you can do to a little boy is make him touch/wear girly things. So, I painted Matt's nails purple - yes, after a day of looking at them, I was even freaked out. And the next day, he had to wear a red tutu and pretty glittery fairy wings.
- Day 4: Girls won (AGAIN!). With some help from Jeremy Pollard and Josh Navey, it was decided that Matt would do a cheer about how great girls are (I think it went something like "G-I-R-L-S I think that girls are the best!") and then he had to do part of the Dream Hands dance. That was definitely one of the funniest moments of the week, hands down! The videos of that had better be somewhere and will make it on here at some point.
- Day 5: Boys won (I almost cried just knowing that). We got on stage, and Matt pulled out one of those containers of worms you buy when you're going fishing. I literally felt like I was about to die right there as I read, "Nightcrawlers" across the front of the tub. I was completely freaked out - partially because I didn't know what Matt was going to make me do with a worm. So he pulled out this
really long and wiggly worm and started talking about the worm, as I tried to relatively compose myself and not lose it in front of 300 people. I almost cried, and I am man enough to admit that. Matt realized that and moved from his original plan to make me either kiss or lick the worm to trying to get me to hold it. But he decided to be even more merciful and just made me touch it. That was a pretty traumatic experience, but apparently people enjoyed it, so that's what counts. Then we both got to take turns in the dunking booth - cold water and mean kids...but it was fun all the more.
So in spite of the craziness, a couple things that were really great came out of the week (well more, but I'm only going to say a couple). I realized how much you can minister to kids just by being silly and losing your sense of pride and importance and really getting down on their level. The coolest thing was when a mom walked up to me after one of the nights and told me that the only reason her son came back to Kids Week every night was because of the Penny Wars stuff, and that was how he was hearing the gospel. Wow! I realized that I wasn't just being silly for no reason - I really was getting through to the kids. And that's the point of Kids Week, right?
I continue to be amazed by God. And I hope you do too.